Swing theory of love
This theory is that women's psychology is shaken like a swing. I think you have played with a swing when you were a child, but have you ever thought about why it is fun? It's not fun if you are just on a swing, stand still and there is no shaking. It's the same as just sitting on a chair. You can enjoy swings because you feel thrill when they swing back and forth.
This is the same with psychology for pick-up talk. The more she, HB feel a psychological tremor and have a greater range of swings, the more she feel attracted and excited about us. For example, an owarai- entertainer, is extremely good at making the swings caused by the shaking of talking.
Now, let's take a look at how "swing width" is made by an entertainer.
Evil Tongue
・Gives her a bad nickname
・The most beautiful woman in the all ugly world
・Brisk hard-seller
・Women of 30% off
By making a fuss, you can make "sway" of (minus) into the other person's feelings. We'll make it.
And instead of ending with that, negative - (minus) state, then follow up. "I'm sorry that it's too noisy." , "I don't really think so.", "I like it."
By adding this follow, women's feelings move to + (plus). In the two steps of this 'Making fun' and 'Follow', the swing theory of love, which creates a psychological range up-down for women, is very useful.
With this psychological technique, even if you don't have confidence in your looks, even if you don't have money, you can roll a woman's heart(treat her well) on your palm.
And I'm going to show you a few examples I'll explain a simple method.
[STEP 1: Empathy (praise)]
(praise) "That dress is cute."
(praise) "THE BLACK EYEs of You are BIG."
(praise) "You are slim. Have a good figure"
By empathizing with and commenting on a woman's looks and hobbies, you first evoke the feeling of + (plus).
In step 2, add a wrinkle to evoke the feeling of − (minus).
(praise) "That dress is cute."
=>(Making fun/Teasing) "You look like the mother on the day of parents' visit to school. lol"
(praise)
"THE BLACK EYEs if you are BIG."
=>(Making fun/Teasing) "Isn't it too big as colored contact lenses? lol"
(praise) "You are slender. have a good figure"
=>(Making fun/Teasing)"Chicken skin may be called as nickname. lol"
If you put in this Making fun/Teasing, it will cause a negative sway in women's mind.
In other words, by repeating the swings in STEP1 and STEP2, and increasing the range of swings, the attractiveness of you from women will increase and you got her mind and she will fall in love.
Example : Confrontation with a teeth-whitening woman
Me "Your teeth are very white."
Woman "Yeah."
Me "Did you whiten your teeth recently?"
Woman "I did it a long time ago."
Me " It'll hold it."
Woman "Yes"
Me "How long ago?"
Woman "About six months ago."
Me "It's too long."
Woman "No, it's like this."
Me "Is there a way to keep whitening?"
Woman "I keep it."
Me "That's why I'm asking you to teach me the ropes. lol"
Woman "(burst of laughter)"
Confrontation with a white, half-faced beauty
Me "You look like that person."
Woman "You look like that guy?"
Me "You look like a foreigner."
Woman "Where is it?"
Me "Antarctic"
Woman "Antarctic? why? lol"
I "That's a lie. Because you have very clear skin like a iceberg. But I have to break the ice. lol"
Woman "Laughter"
As introduced in this article
'swing theory of love' is
in pick-up terms
'match pump, replacement work'.
If you're interested, it's worth remembering and using.